Aurora EAP reports that one-third of high school students experience some kind of dating violence. Fortunately, there’s a lot parents can do to prevent that:

First, look for these common warning signs of dating abuse:

• An abuser displays extreme jealousy or insecurity, offers constant belittling or put-downs, and exhibits an explosive temper.
• An abused person often exhibits gradual isolation from family and friends.
• Abusers are typically possessive and tell the abused partner what to do. They may also repeatedly pressure their partner to have sex.

You can take steps to make a difference:

• One of the most important things you can do is keep the lines of communication open with your kids.
• Be a role model: Treat your kids and others with respect.
• Start talking to your kids about healthy relationships early — before they start dating.
• Get involved with efforts to prevent dating violence at your teen’s school.

If you are worried about your teen, call the National Dating Abuse Helpline at 866.331.9474, text “loveis” to 22522, or visit breakthecycle.org. Aurora EAP is also here to help at 800.236.3231.

Photo by Sadie Hernandez.